“It’s not you. It’s your cage.”
I think about this article a lot… On the wildness of children
It’s sad to think that all of mankind’s efforts to grow, to thrive to expand have led to nothing more than elaborate cages designed to keep us from doing exactly that. I have always thought of life as we know it as some sort of tunnel. Our lives are dictated to us by the ones we love, even by the world, before they start. Our names, our faith, our roles… our being. To escape any of these things is to escape the tunnel. But where to? There’s nowhere to go when the wildness has not been given a chance to find its way.
All we come into this world with, whatever is innate or pre-wired in us is all we truly have that belongs to us. From the moment we are born our parents, with all the love and good intentions then begin to mold us.Knowingly or unknowingly our stories begin to be written by others. And because we know no better, we are doing the same for our children. We will hand them the very same template that was handed to us, go to school, graduate, get a job, get married, start a family…rinse and repeat.
This article delves into our disconnect from the world, from nature. Everything we know about the world we call home has been ironically taught from within the confines of man made structures as the world we seek to learn beckons us from the outside. Why can’t we go to it itself and learn from there? It wonders.
But the truth is we don’t know how to teach our children about nature because we ourselves were raised in the cinderblock world. We are, in the parlance of wildlife rehabilitators, unreleasable. I used to do wildlife rescue and rehabilitation, and the one thing we all knew was that a young animal kept too long in a cage would not be able to survive in the wild. Often, when you open the door to the cage, it will be afraid to go out; if it does go out, it won’t know what to do. The world has become unfamiliar, an alien place. This is what we have done to our children.
This is what was done to us.
The author then posits that this disconnect is having a profound effect on us as a species. Separated from what for many years was our natural environment we are slowly becoming restless and anxious among other things. Our home, the wild is calling to us.
“In Wildness is the preservation of the World.”…..What does this mean? Turner has tracked down a reference in Thoreau’s “Fact-book” to the word “wild” as “the past participle of to will, self-willed.” The wild, then, is the self-willed, that which lives out of its own intrinsic nature rather than bowing to some extrinsic force.
So where do we go from here? Where does this leave us? Can we ever escape?